How to minimise the effect of separation on children

Divorce has a huge impact on children. There are some straight-forward principles that help children cope with separation. No matter what the circumstances, you will feel better if you handle your separation wisely.

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Is it wrong to have secret contact with my ex?

We find that quite a lot of people stay in contact with an ex when they are in a relationship. Some do this secretly. If you are doing this or thinking about contacting an ex, read this now.

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Euthanasia and suicide. What is the difference?

Is there a difference between suicide and euthanasia? Even though euthanasia and suicide are both about avoiding pain, there is one major difference. But is that difference enough to legalise euthanasia? We explore the risks.

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I don’t like my friend’s partner

So you don’t like your friend’s partner. You think she is making a terrible mistake. This is a tricky situation and needs to be handled well. Here is some advice that might help.

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How to connect with the people you work with

Working in a place where there is conflict or strained relationships is exhausting and stressful. The good news is there are things you can do to create a happy atmosphere around you. Doing this is also extremely good for your career.

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How to deal with feeling humiliated and embarrassed

Our great fear is public humiliation. Most people in the public eye stuff up occasionally. The Duke of Edinburgh, for example, is renowned for it. While we may not be in the public eye like the Duke we can still identify with his situation. At some time, we too have been guilty of hurting others […]

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He hates me smoking

My husband hates me smoking. He says it‘s unhealthy and thinks smokers are fools. I don‘t think he is being fair. I smoked before we married and I only ever smoke outside. I don‘t want to give it up just yet as it relaxes me. How do I get him off my case? He cannot stop you smoking. Likewise, […]

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How can I tell when I am falling out of love?

Falling in love is such a wonderful, walking-on-air feeling that it is a shock when, one day, you realise it’s disappearing. Your heart used to leap when the phone rang; now you tolerate the interruption. You were absorbed with the thought of your next romantic meeting, now when you meet, you think: “probably be late […]

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Honeymoon Disappointment

I’m a blushing bride recently married to a man I love with all my heart. He’s handsome, rich and talented. He also has a quick temper, but that’s not what really concerns me. I’m more worried about our honeymoon. As a man of some means, I expected him to sweep me off my feet – […]

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How do we work together to discipline our children?

Discipling children is challenging and it is difficult to get the balance right. But it is possible if both parents look at their own childhood and how they were disciplined and get in touch with their childhood feelings. Mining your childhood in this way will uncover buried treasure and help you be a better parent.

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