Beware the quiet and tolerant. They might seem sweet and remain calm for ages before one day you are hit with an explosion. Your sweet friend has turned into a bitch. And you wonder what is going on.
Read more...I don’t want to be a bitch
Month: August 2016
Is addiction an emotional crutch?
There are good reasons why we use addictive substances like alcohol and nicotine. These substances can help us cope with our emotions. But they have a cost, of course, and there may be better choices.
Read more...What To Do When Your Partner Lacks Empathy
“I was recently involved with a narcissistic man who was completely unable to empathize/care or even think about my feelings and needs. Sometimes I would have to explain how his behavior was affecting me and he would eventually acknowledge he could see how I might feel, but never changed the behavior. Can someone be taught […]
Read more...Making fun of penis size hurts
Gossiping to others and making fun of a sexual partner is childish and informative. Anyone behaving like this is telling you how afraid they are of any genuine sexual connection or intimacy.
Read more...Do I tell my friend her new relationship is as hopeless as all her others?
Watching a friend make the same mistake over and over is painful. You want to save her, stop her from the disaster, and save your mobile phone bill from exploding when the disaster happens. But interfering has its risks.
Read more...Do I pursue my new love or the overseas trip I had planned?
Sometimes we are caught between two options, both of which we greatly desire. Making a decision is difficult. We need to use our heart, our feelings, to help us make the best decision. There are ways to do this.
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